新手雙胞胎媽媽的碎碎唸

　　拍婚紗、挑樣、喜帖、結婚禮服...，都拍完、校完稿、選完、付印...了。
　　感覺好像，也忙得差不多了(但其實還有婚禮、婚宴流程跟當日工作人員沒有確定 >< )。

　　最近常被問，在處理過這麼多破碎的家庭、看與聽過這麼多故事後，怎麼還有勇氣踏入婚姻，而且，就決定是這個人？

　　我想，我的經驗並不足以成為甚麼參考或印證，但是，有首老歌，很值得有這些迷惘的人聽聽。　　

　　The Rose 　

Some say love, it is a river

that drowns the tender reed

Some say love, it is a razor

that leaves your soul to bleed

Some say love, it is a hunger an endless aching need

I say love it is a flower

And you, it’s only seed

It’s the heart afraid of breaking

that never learns to dance

It’s the dream afraid of waking

that never takes the chance

It’s the one who won’t be taken who can not seem to give

And the soul afraid of dying that never learns to live

When the night has been too lonely

And the road has been too long

And you think that love is only for the lucky and the strong

Just remember in the winter

Far beneath the bitter snow lies the seed

That with the sun’s love in the spring becomes the rose

　　別因咽廢食，別被外在的表象所困惑，也別堅持那些其實不甚重要的特質反而蒙蔽了你看見對方靈魂的心，別用眼睛，要用心感受......

 　　有天你真的能體會，苦盡甘來的感受。